{"id":10465,"date":"2022-02-13T08:45:14","date_gmt":"2022-02-12T23:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xsionx.com\/asmr\/?p=10465"},"modified":"2022-02-13T08:45:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-12T23:45:14","slug":"asmr-giving-you-personal-dating-advice-very-wise-very-qualified","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xsionx.com\/asmr\/asmr-giving-you-personal-dating-advice-very-wise-very-qualified\/","title":{"rendered":"ASMR | Giving You Personal Dating Advice (Very Wise, Very Qualified)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 id=\"outline__1\">ASMR | Giving You Personal Dating Advice (Very Wise, Very Qualified)<\/h2>\n<p><div class=\"youtube\"><iframe title=\"ASMR | Giving You Personal Dating Advice (Very Wise, Very Qualified)\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/SVId0tSbmYs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s time to answer YOUR questions about Dating and LOVE!!! All personally submitted!! I tried to pick ones I saw that were asked over and over again just worded a little differently &#8211; so if I didn&#8217;t get to your exact question, hopefully something in this video will be mildly helpful!!<\/p>\n<p>Obviously I am only as qualified as you view me to be &#8211; LOL &#8211; but this is the kind of advice I would give any close friend that came to me! My friends all tell me I am very &#8220;tough love&#8221;  &#8230;. so&#8230; hopefully that&#8217;s&#8230; fine \ud83d\ude42<br \/>\nI like to be logical and realistic! I think that people should spend more time looking at the SCIENCE<br \/>\nof relationship and love!!<\/p>\n<p>For example, here&#8217;s a book I talk about:<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/ift.tt\/o7RtvDp<br \/>\nWOW IT&#8217;S EVEN ON AUDIBLE &#8212; listen this video isn&#8217;t sponsored but&#8230; yknow<br \/>\nhttps:\/\/ift.tt\/fMBjlSv<\/p>\n<p>I think doing actual WORK on understanding yourself, on how to be a good partner, and what YOU want in a partner&#8230; v invaluable. There will never be a time where you&#8217;re not &#8220;working&#8221; on your relationship I think! If you both are on the same page it makes things a lot smoother! Ben and I are not perfect, but I am always very happy with how level-headed our entire relationship has felt. Never ever any screaming\/yelling\/never ever silent treatment-ing the other person. And I&#8217;m very grateful for that. It makes working through the inevitable problems much more pleasant. <\/p>\n<p>ANYHOO I&#8217;ll stop typing because I talk enough in this video LOOOOL. Let me know what you think!<br \/>\nHAPPY VALENTINES DAY &#8211; LOVE YOURSELF LIKE YOU WOULD LOVE ANOTHER AMIRITE<br \/>\n~Gibi aka cupid aka eros, aphrodite&#8217;s smol boi<br \/>\nPS Remember to chill<\/p>\n<p>TIMESTAMPS:<br \/>\n0:00 &#8211; Intro<br \/>\n5:26 &#8211; How do you tell someone you like them, specially if they don&#8217;t know you have feelings for them?<br \/>\n13:15 &#8211; What do you do if you&#8217;re rejected?<br \/>\n17:05 &#8211; Is it weird to try and get back with an ex you are on good terms with? How can I get over them?<br \/>\n21:18 &#8211; How do I know if my standards are too high?<br \/>\n25:05 &#8211; Is it weird that I have no experience at my age?<br \/>\n29:45 &#8211; Maintaining a relationship!<br \/>\n34:47 &#8211; How do you find a woman that doesn&#8217;t just want my body or money?<br \/>\n35:05 &#8211; When do you know to keep things to yourself and not comment about something about your partner?<br \/>\n37:16 &#8211; There is a guy who liked me last year but I did not. Now I do like him, but I don&#8217;t know what to do about it.<br \/>\n38:08 &#8211; I have a massive crush on this guy but I believe he is unobtainable, can you help?<br \/>\n40:42 &#8211; How to survive long distance relationships?<br \/>\n42:47 &#8211; A year ago I was talking to a girl I liked, but I called things off due to fear of a serious relationship. We&#8217;ve since started talking again, and I&#8217;ve admitted my mistake but now I do not know how to approach the &#8220;where are we going&#8221; question.<br \/>\n44:28 &#8211; This may be opposite to the point of the video, but what is the best way to break up with a partner?<br \/>\n45:43 &#8211; Male insecurities, what are things I can change about myself and why can&#8217;t I get a partner?<br \/>\n51:34 &#8211; How to get the attention of someone that doesn&#8217;t know you?<br \/>\n52:48 &#8211; I like this person, but they are kind of a bully. Should I just move on, or still act on how I feel?<br \/>\n54:25 &#8211; Is confidence really as important as people make it out to be?<br \/>\n56:52 &#8211; What are the best places to go on a first date?<br \/>\n57:20 &#8211; How do you know if you have feelings for someone instead of just hyper-fixating or being bored?<br \/>\n58:36 &#8211; Do you think Soul Mates exist?<br \/>\n1:03:00 &#8211; What&#8217;s a good way to keep a conversation going?<br \/>\n1:04:22 &#8211; What do you do if you fall for a friend who is in a relationship?<br \/>\n1:04:58 &#8211; Whenever my girlfriend and I have a small fight, and I am in the wrong, she says she doesn&#8217;t want to talk for awhile. I know she wants her space, but my instinct is to call and reach out. What should I do?<br \/>\n1:06:48 &#8211; How do you know when a relationship is too far gone to save? How do you know when you are dating a narcissist?<br \/>\n1:07:30 &#8211; How to handle a cranky mother-in-law?<br \/>\n1:08:30 &#8211; What should I do when my partner is talking to another person? \/ Discussion on jealousy<\/p>\n<p>\ud83c\udfb5New Spotify tracks every Friday! https:\/\/ift.tt\/EcGTqfn<br \/>\nAnd Apple Music! https:\/\/ift.tt\/xhEi4so<br \/>\nAAAND Soundcloud! https:\/\/ift.tt\/IO3TAUe<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\nMy upload schedule in January and February:<br \/>\n\u25baNew Spotify audio every Friday<br \/>\n\u25baASMR Video Every Saturday<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br \/>\nFind me on the internet!<br \/>\n\u25baTWITCH\/LIVESTREAMING (not ASMR!) https:\/\/ift.tt\/1e2sutF<br \/>\n\u25baTWITTER: https:\/\/www.twitter.com\/GibiOfficial<br \/>\n\u25baINSTAGRAM: https:\/\/ift.tt\/ahZMIiV<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br \/>\nOUTRO by https:\/\/twitter.com\/FlashJomm \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>This video was edited by Shawn, my full-time editor! 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